Growing up Is Hard : managing expectation

At this moment, growing up means to be hurt, dissapointed, and to give up your values in order to be accepted in the society. Lately, life feels so challenging. There was a time when me and my friends were going to hang out. One of them is my close friend, like I literally open up

A Guideline for Relationship?

I can’t stop wondering if there is anything called “normal” relationship (both friendship and romantic)…. Like a guide or a standard of relationship, whether what I have is normal or common.Maybe all of you will think, why is this so important? Grew up in an unsafe environment psychologically and physically, I became overly sensitive, tend

What Child Wants: Toxic Parenting (I m Broken)

“You are a good person”, someone says to me. “You are kind, friendly, helpful, very cheerful, smart, confident, pretty”, they said. Am I? If that’s the truth, why I can’t see the one you all are talking about……….I am just one of hell kid, my laughter is a sin, my existance is a pain. No